So hello community! My name is Jenny (although you can find me under Rio Dejaneiro on Dragon's Gate). I've recently returned to the game. I played it many, many... many moons ago (back in 1992) when it was on a system called GEnie. As far as LJ, I've been plodding along here since 2000. I just added Dragon's Gate as an interest and WoW! Here is a COMMUNITY! Anywho, I'm really excited to see who all is here and what the scoop is on the world these days. I'm still hanging out in the Training Area until I hit fives on my skills. But look for me in Spur soon :D
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Confirm deletion of Healya please ? N,y
I have freed the name 'Healya' for general use!
Linneastrylon:: I have freed the name 'Healya' for general use!
Aurak Sslikthi:: nooooooooo
The Rogue Wolf:: Awww. ::cuddle Linne::
Linneastrylon:: She is in a better place.
Laynie Janks:: ::comforts Linn::
Aurak Sslikthi:: you must feel like Anyah did when she deleted Flora
Aurak Sslikthi:: the end of a legend
Aurak Sslikthi:: ;)
The Rogue Wolf:: She exists in the memories of DGate's past, a better place where we all had hope and dreams.
I was checking a friend's journal, and followed links...to this.
Oy. Should I be worried, now? Who knew???
Soooo yeah. I stumbled upon the DGate lj community a while back but never said hi. So hi.
I play Fiesta Tiobee, one of many drag-al firemages. Long ago I was Gaudior Revlis, for those of you who remember her.
Aaaaaand sadly I'm not going to DCon, unless someone wants to haul my sorry ass from the middle of Pennsylvania all the way to Atlanta and back.
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Yeah. This is just an introduction seeing as I have nothing good to say. I play Murasaki the San Elf, and some other characters that arent worthy enough to name. Yay.
Greetings. I used to play Kelston Bernstar the Leuian and currently am Khoman Veridun the San and have recently been Radik Razelle, Psycian.
I've seen some good shit throughout my DGate career. I probably hung out with the guy (Merrimax - I miss that bastard) who knew most of the cybering Leuians from AOL. I think though it was relatively tame compared to the game some Pride Leuians invited me to play. I have to say, that if you're under 18 and Pride Leuians invite you to play a game that says 18 and over, DON'T DO IT MAN. It was pretty interesting seeing all these respected Leuians and DGaters play in a 99% sex only furry MUD. After that, no cybering in DGate phases me. When full sex scenes are going on everywhere and each emote is like 2 paragraphs long.
Frankly, I fully expect cybering to go on in DGate and I deal with it. Enough people have "curves" or "breasts" or some sexual thing in their appearance text that trying to deny cybering is an altogether pointless endeavor. The staff doesn't seem to frown upon it unless it is remarkably public considering that interesting log posted on the Flame Boards with elders actually watching two players go at it. The whole Leuian race seems to have half their backstory revolving around a remarkably intimate consummation of love. Monitanians and Arachnians seem a haven for dominatrixes. San Elves push BDSM play... Secians love everybody like a certain sexed up group in the 60s.
Quitting over the existence of cybering is hasty at best. Unless you're Psycian and purposely not taking drugs, there's really not many times you'll run into people cybering. I'd say there are plenty of little hide-aways that people can cyber in and requires you to be actively looking to find them.
Quit over Stangee-Gate. At least people would understand throwing away years of work for that. Cybering occurs in every single MUD that doesn't have a large staff to player ratio that actively police the playerbase, you just have to deal and not play EverQuest, else you'd have an 80% chance to cyber a guy playing a female.
I'm gonna do the same thing B did because I'm that important.
Playing a female San is bound to get you a few propositions here and there, but for the most part I haven't had trouble whispering OOCly, "Hey, I don't do anything more than PG-13 type emotes," and that usually works. Some people still don't get it; that's when you start ignoring them completely.
As for the point addressed -- I just don't SEE that DGate is a 'Cyber Mud' at all. I know it goes on, but for me I suppose it's an out of sight, out of mind type thing... I choose to spend my IG time differently than those who participate in it, but whatever they do is fine by me as long as they don't drag me into it.
However, if you're morally offended by the thought of it occurring, I'll make sure that no one here is going to chastise you for feeling that way. No one governs what makes you uncomfortable but you, and if it's so much so that you feel as if you can't play the game anymore, then I hope you have a fruitful life outside of DGate! As for my part, I hope you stick around.
I was going to just reply to Suup's post, but I figured that there would be a better chance of everyone reading it if I just started a new post.
First of all, I want to say that I'm sorry to see you go, Suup. I haven't had a chance to interact with you IG, but I've seen you around the Square and read your posts. Before you decide to leave for good, I'd suggest that you just take a break. Have your account locked down so you can keep your characters, and find something else to do for a while. We all need to have our breaks every so often, and later down the line, you may regret it if you delete all your characters.
As for the statement that DGate is becoming one big "Cyber Mud"... well, all I can really say to that is that it always has been. No matter what game you decide to play, there is always going to be a sexual undercurrent there. Hell, there are some MU*s devoted to nothing BUT cyber-sex. I don't think it'll ever get to the point of having people gettin' it on in the middle of the Square, after all, there is a PG-13 rating. I honestly haven't noticed it being that much worse than it ever was. Some people get their kicks by playing "those sort" of characters. The Gilded Lion and the AGC weren't created for nothing, you know. The fact that some people want to play DGate to fulfill some of their sexual fantasies, while others play it to fulfill their "I'm a big bad-ass, I'm going to kill you now" fantasies.
I'm truly sorry that you're leaving. DGate needs every good player that it can get. As I said before, take a break, then come back in a few months or so and give it another try. Things change constantly in the game world, and stuff that you don't like now may be completely gone, or at least, toned down, in a few months time.
I'm going to re-post your entry on the info boards, I'd like to see the responses of the other players.
There has been a considerable development in my life and I am going to have to make certain choices that will either throw my life into a flaming downward spiral, or help me move on into success. Either way, I expect a dicussion follow up from this decision.
I have decided that soon I may be dropping from playing Dragon's Gate. It has been a wonderful community, an absolutely grand community for the maybe near three years I believe I have been playing. It was a wonderful way for me to reach out and touch people, have disagreements and times that were wonderfully generous contribution to the Role-Play genre.
But, with aid of a friend, and a belayed realisation, I have also noticed a growing trend that DGate is turning into what I righteously dub a "Cyber MUD". Where it's a multi-user dimension that houses cyber sex. And it does seem to be over-taking the game.
No matter how you look at it, yes, sex is a part of life, and yes, sex has been a part of DGate; yet, it's growing on a near public scale that I wouldn't be surprised to see someone cybering in TSC. That is very much seeming what it's growing to become.
I state again, this has been a wonderful community, but the reason I may be leaving is not for the reason that cyber sex is in the game, but it is because my life is changing. I don't know what to, but I am going to conform it to include all my friends.
I know I should post this in the DGate boards, but I sadly don't check them. Someone else may post this there which I actually would encourage. Could prove an interesting discussion.
I have adored this wonderful game, but don't be surprised if I leave. And if I do, consider this my farewell. Otherwise, I expect this to turn into a healthy discussion of the current situation with DGate.
Toodles people. Lots of Love.